Comments on: Marriage: Logic Or Emotion? http://www.josephayi.com/blog/relationships/marry-out-of-logic-or-emotion/ Sun, 04 Jul 2010 07:54:43 +0000 hourly 1 By: Joshua Porter http://www.josephayi.com/blog/relationships/marry-out-of-logic-or-emotion/comment-page-1/#comment-369 Joshua Porter Thu, 09 Jul 2009 19:38:35 +0000 http://www.josephayi.com/blog/?p=939#comment-369 Joseph, Ditto man; fear should never overcome you! Patience is probably the best option, as love and the right opportunity seems to find you. Joshua Porter Joseph,

Ditto man; fear should never overcome you! Patience is probably the best option, as love and the right opportunity seems to find you.

Joshua Porter

]]> By: Jaremy http://www.josephayi.com/blog/relationships/marry-out-of-logic-or-emotion/comment-page-1/#comment-354 Jaremy Tue, 07 Jul 2009 18:32:43 +0000 http://www.josephayi.com/blog/?p=939#comment-354 Interesting post. It's important to note that if one gets married (or enters a long-term relationship) without BOTH logic and emotion, it will be a rough road ahead. A marriage without emotion often leads to cheating or boredom. A marriage without logic can lead to instability or financial trouble. In that way, both are flawed. The key is to find someone you find beautiful that you can truly get along with day after day (when I think emotion, I'm not thinking of lust) and who understands you and has similar values. When I say values, I'm not talking about "loves fast cars" and "hates N'Sync", either. Find someone that shares your same value of integrity; respect for others; someone who has a similar goal for their career (or a goal for yours). If you constantly give of yourself, don't marry someone who is selfish and always takes. Opinions change. Core values stay the same. Interesting post. It’s important to note that if one gets married (or enters a long-term relationship) without BOTH logic and emotion, it will be a rough road ahead. A marriage without emotion often leads to cheating or boredom. A marriage without logic can lead to instability or financial trouble. In that way, both are flawed.

The key is to find someone you find beautiful that you can truly get along with day after day (when I think emotion, I’m not thinking of lust) and who understands you and has similar values. When I say values, I’m not talking about “loves fast cars” and “hates N’Sync”, either. Find someone that shares your same value of integrity; respect for others; someone who has a similar goal for their career (or a goal for yours). If you constantly give of yourself, don’t marry someone who is selfish and always takes. Opinions change. Core values stay the same.

]]> By: Fanny Lawren http://www.josephayi.com/blog/relationships/marry-out-of-logic-or-emotion/comment-page-1/#comment-349 Fanny Lawren Mon, 29 Jun 2009 17:27:50 +0000 http://www.josephayi.com/blog/?p=939#comment-349 Happy marriage needs both logic and emotion. Maybe you are crazily in love, but you need to make sure the relationship will realistically workout before you get married and stay married forever. If you just marry for the sake of getting married. Hope you find positive emotional attachment to the better halves. Sucessful marriage requires both love and partnership. Happy marriage needs both logic and emotion. Maybe you are crazily in love, but you need to make sure the relationship will realistically workout before you get married and stay married forever. If you just marry for the sake of getting married. Hope you find positive emotional attachment to the better halves. Sucessful marriage requires both love and partnership.

]]> By: floreta http://www.josephayi.com/blog/relationships/marry-out-of-logic-or-emotion/comment-page-1/#comment-347 floreta Mon, 29 Jun 2009 07:09:48 +0000 http://www.josephayi.com/blog/?p=939#comment-347 i hope i never get ruled by that fear. i'd like to be one of those people that doesn't need a relationship, and is content alone, should it come to that. companionship would be nice too.. great article. i hope i never get ruled by that fear. i’d like to be one of those people that doesn’t need a relationship, and is content alone, should it come to that. companionship would be nice too.. great article.

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